Do you ever get the feeling of being overwhelmed with tasks?

Do you feel pressure on a consistent basis to perform at a high level?

Do you find it hard to “switch off” in the evenings and have difficulty sleeping?. These and many more scenarios are examples of stress in our lives. Stress, no matter what the origin is, it is not good for us! It builds up in our bodies and it can even be making you fatter!

We get the “fight or flight” response or “adrenalin rush”. This reaction is important for us to be able to react to life threatening situations and survive.

The problem is in our super busy 21st century, the body is still reacting to all stress this way and for extended periods of time. This leads to chronically elevated levels of stress hormones in the body which can impact negatively on your metabolism, make you feel tired, lethargic and reduce your immune system so you get sick.

As a recently recovered Stress Head Myself. Here are My Top Five Tips to start doing today to reduce the stress in your life.

* Spring Clean Your House: Get rid of what you don’t use or need, visual clutter and mess in our homes adds to our sense of “chaos”. Reduce this and you will feel better.

* Plan for Tomorrow: Sit down of an evening and plan for the following day: where you need to be and when; things you need to take; prepare food to take with you; even plan when you will do your exercise, and stick to it.

* Be Anti-Procrastination: Tasks that we can do that we keep putting off, continue to sit in the back of our head all day, just teasing us. Do the vital things you need to do, but hate doing.It will free up your thoughts to focus on more enjoyable things!

* Meditate: Find time each day to switch off from everything. Nothing fancy or crazy, just find somewhere to lie down for five minutes and close your eyes and concentrate on your breaths, don’t stress if thoughts enter your mind just let them pass and bring your attention back to your breathing.

* Streamline Your Life: Create a list of the five most important things in your life. If you find something that you are stressing about and it isn’t on that list, forget about it! If it is something you absolutely have to deal with, deal with it as soon as possible, then you can go back to living with what it is that you value.

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meditation Mindfulness in Medicine

Mindfulness in Medicine
*Journal of the American Medical Association* (Vol. 300 No. 11, September 17) includes an article: “Mindfulness in Medicine.”

David S. Ludwig, MD, PhD, & Jon Kabat-Zinn, PhD, are the authors.

Here are some excerpts:

Mindfulness refers to a meditation practice that cultivates present
moment awareness. In the past 30 years, interest in the therapeutic uses
of mindfulness has increased, with more than 70 scientific articles on
the topic published in 2007. Meditation practices, including
mindfulness, have come to the attention of neuroscientists investigating
consciousness and affect regulation through mental training and to
psychotherapists interested in personal development and interpersonal
relationships. In this Commentary, we define mindfulness, consider
possible mechanisms, explore clinical applications, and identify
challenges to the field.

Mindfulness and Its Relationship to Medicine

Mindfulness involves attending to relevant aspects of experience in a
nonjudgmental manner. Historically a Buddhist practice, mindfulness can
be considered a universal human capacity proposed to foster clear
thinking and open-heartedness. As such, this form of meditation requires
no particular religious or cultural belief system. The goal of
mindfulness is to maintain awareness moment by moment, disengaging
oneself from strong attachment to beliefs, thoughts, or emotions,
thereby developing a greater sense of emotional balance and well-being.

The original purpose of mindfulness in Buddhism–to alleviate suffering
and cultivate compassion–suggests a potential role for this practice
with medical patients and practitioners.[1] Much cardiovascular disease,
diabetes, cancer, and other chronic illness is caused or exacerbated by
modifiable lifestyle factors, and lifestyle modification constitutes
primary or ancillary treatment for most medical conditions. An aim of
mindfulness practice is to take greater responsibility for one’s life
choices. Thus, mindfulness may promote a more participatory medicine by
engaging and strengthening an individual’s internal resources for
optimizing health in both prevention of and recovery from illness. For
intractable disease, meditative techniques that alter and refine
awareness may modulate the subjective experience of pain or improve the
ability to cope with pain and disability.

Implicitly, at least, mindfulness has always been part of good medical
practice, facilitating the physician’s compassionate engagement with the
patient. Epstein[2] suggests that “mindfulness is integral to the
professional competence of physicians” in promoting effective clinical
decision making and reducing medical errors. Indeed, the connection
between medicine and meditation is underscored by their shared
etymological origins in the Latin word mederi, which means “to heal.”

Mechanisms

There are many ways that mindfulness might influence susceptibility to,
or ability to recover from, disability and disease. These may include
(1) decreased perception of pain severity;
(2) increased ability to tolerate pain or disability;
(3) reduced stress, anxiety, or depression;
(4) diminished usage of, and thereby reduced adverse effects from
analgesic, anxiolytic, or antidepressant medication;
(5) enhanced ability to reflect on choices regarding medical treatments (eg, decision
to seek a second opinion);
(6) improved adherence to medical treatments;
(7) increased motivation for lifestyle changes involving diet, physical
activity, smoking cessation, or other behaviors;
(8) enriched interpersonal relationships and social connectedness; and
(9) alterations in biological pathways affecting health, such as the
autonomic nervous system, neuroendocrine function, and the immune
system. Most of these possibilities have not been rigorously examined.
Nevertheless, psychological stress has been linked to numerous medical
conditions.

Moreover, preliminary data suggest that mindfulness practice has a
profound and perhaps unique effect on brain function. In a study using
functional magnetic resonance imaging in 27 undergraduate students in
Los Angeles, California, Creswell et al[3] found that individual
disposition toward mindfulness was associated with widespread prefrontal
cortical activation and reduced bilateral amygdala activity during an
affect-labeling task, after controlling for various psychometric
covariates. Using electroencephalogram (EEG), Lutz et al[4] found that
highly experienced Buddhist monks produced, during meditation, long-
distance phase synchrony (suggestive of large-scale neural coordination)
and gamma activity with a higher amplitude than any reported in a state
of health. Davidson et al[5] randomly assigned participants in a corporate
setting to a mindfulness-based stress reduction group or a wait list
control group and reported increased left-sided anterior activation by
EEG (patterns associated with positive emotional experience) in the
stress reduction group. This group also demonstrated a greater increase
in antibody titers to influenza vaccine, and the magnitude of the EEG
change predicted the magnitude of antibody response. Tang et al[6]
reported that undergraduates in a Chinese university randomly assigned
to a mind/body intervention that included mindfulness showed lower
salivary cortisol and higher salivary IgA concentrations in response to
psychological stress (mental arithmetic task) compared with control
students who were given an intervention of equal intensity that focused
on relaxation. Thus, mindfulness training may be an effective way to
positively regulate brain, endocrine, and immune function, influencing
physiological and psychological variables important to well-being.

Clinical Applications

Pain, stress, coping, and quality of life comprise the original focus of
medical research into mindfulness. In 1982, Kabat-Zinn[7] reported
descriptive data from medical patients with chronic pain of 6 months to
48 years’ duration who received training in mindfulness-based stress
reduction. Among the 51 participants who completed the program (88% of
the 58 total enrolled), perceived pain decreased significantly during
the intervention, with half reporting a reduction of at least 50%. In a
study of 109 patients, aged 27 to 75 years, with various types of
cancer, Speca et al[8] found that compared with a wait-list control group,
those randomly assigned to the mindfulness group experienced
improvements of 65% in mood disturbance and 31% in symptoms of stress.
Others have found beneficial effects of mindfulness training on
acceptance of pain, severity of general medical symptoms, physical
functioning, and ability to cope with daily life.

Recently, a number of specific medical conditions have become the
subject of study. Based on research involving individuals with a history
of 3 or more episodes of major depression,[9] the National Health Service
in the United Kingdom recommends mindfulness-based cognitive therapy.
Mindfulness training has shown preliminary evidence of efficacy in the
treatment of psoriasis, type 2 diabetes, sleep disturbance, attention-
deficit hyperactivity disorder, and other conditions. Mindfulness, or
lack thereof, may have special relevance for obesity and eating
disorders. In one study, lean and obese young adults were given a meal
of soup in special bowls that, unbeknownst to them, slowly refilled as
their contents were consumed. These individuals ate 73% more than those
who consumed soup from normal bowls. Of particular note, they did not
believe they had consumed more, nor did they report being more satiated
than the other participants.[10] Thus, mindfulness could inform not only
the choice of what to eat but also the awareness of having eaten enough.
In a pilot study, a small group of young women with bulimia nervosa
reported a reduction in emotional and behavioral extremes and greater
self-acceptance after mindfulness training.[11] The use of mindfulness
training in pain, hypertension, myocardial ischemia, inflammatory bowel
disease, human immunodeficiency virus, and substance abuse is presently
under investigation in research supported by the National Institutes of
Health (NIH).

<snip>

Conclusion

The current age has been referred to as one of “continuous partial
attention.” E-mail, cell phones, and other technology invade nearly
every moment of waking life. Economic pressures demand ever-increasing
productivity, even as time to enjoy the fruits of labor declines. These
factors adversely affect the health care system overall and diminish the
patient-physician relationship. In this context, mindfulness may hold
promise as a potential way to help prevent and treat disease, increase
ability to cope with pain and chronic illness, reduce stress in patients
and practitioners, foster compassion, improve quality of care and reduce
medical errors. High-quality, mechanism-oriented studies and randomized
controlled trials of mindfulness in medicine are needed.

[end excerpts]

The author note provides the following contact information: David S.
Ludwig, MD, PhD, Department of Medicine, Children’s Hospital Boston, 300
Longwood Ave, Boston, MA 02115 (<david.ludwig@childrens.harvard.edu>).

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Today… Judge no one!


I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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There are no limits to what you can become… only the limits in YOUR mind.

high-tree1 No Limits...

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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May the long time time Sun…
shine upon you…
all Love surround you…
and the pure light…
within you…
guide your way on.

An old Irish blessing and the golden voice of Snatam Kaur, a song to bless yourself and those you love.

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

This is an excerpt from the book A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson.  I read it frequently and it Always Empowers me to Remember what is really “Truth.”  As the Course in Miracles says the thinking of the world is 180 degrees from the Truth.

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful
…beyond measure.
It is our Light not our darkness that most
…frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant,
…gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.  Your playing small
…doesn’t serve the world.
There’s nothing enlightening about shrinking
…so other people won’t feel insecure
…around you.
We were born to make manifest the glory of
…God that is within us.
It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone.
And, as we let our Own Light Shine, we
…unconsciously give other people permission
…to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our
…presence automatically liberates others.

So Today… see and acknowledge your own Magnificence, Beauty, and Divine self.

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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Without a little rain in our life, we would never experience the rainbows.  We are surrounded by beauty, so let us be grateful for EVERYTHING in our lives and live each day as if it were your LAST!

rainbow_tree The Rainbow Tree

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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Forgive yourself
for all things you did or didn’t do; that you thought you should or shouldn’t do
give yourself a break; let yourself off the hook;
give yourself the chance to make corrections,
and allow that higher power (Creator) within you
to guide you in this ongoing process of recreating yourself.

And forgive another
Let them off the hook, give them the chance to make corrections.
Know that everyone without exceptions is doing the best they can, and
know that everyone without exception is suffering in some way.

And forgive everyone everything!
Let go of the need to blame or punish,
Let go of the need to be right and for another to be wrong.
Let go of guilt and shame.
Let go of all that, and rejoice in your uniqueness.

In all of creation, there’s only one of you.
This means that your are special and valuable beyond measure,
but it also means that everyone else is special and valuable too.
Though we come from and share the same Source,
we are all special and valuable in our won ways.

Remember that you are loved and cared for-
Life loves you; Life cares for you; Life values you, always!
All of life benefits from your presence, from your experience!
Remember that everyday is another opportunity to
express the Divinity within you.
Be kind to yourself and good; be kind and good to others as well.

-Edmond

Forgiveness is a process that is on going in life.  The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world, so be WILLING to forgive those who have hurt you.

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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I asked God for strength, that I might achieve
I was made weak, that I might learn to humbly obey
I asked health, that I might do great things
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things
I asked for riches, that I might be happy
I was given poverty that I might be wise
I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need for God
I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things

I got nothing I asked for - but everything I had hoped for.  Almost despite
myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.  I am, among men, most richly
blessed.

-Roy Campanella

I always say “There’s your plan and God’s plan… and your plan don’t doesn’t matter.”  God is operating from the highest spiritual perspective, so we nee to LET GO of our plan AND TRUST in His.

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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How often do we judge others based on our preconceptions or instinctive reactions based on years of conditioning?   I have something that I cut out and saved which reminds me about the importance of starting each day with prayer and meditation.  Let us take time each morning so that we can be more mindful and remember that we’re all in this together, and we do not know enough about anyone’s life to make judgments.

Here’s the article that I hope helps you to look at things a little differently today.

Remember to think this…

Help us to remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and is rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children…

Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, dis-interested young man who can’t make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehensions over final exams with his student loans for next semester…

Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day (who really ought to get a job!) is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares…

Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly slow through the store isles and blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together…

Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the greatest gift is love.  It is not enough to share that love with those we hold dear.  Open our hearts not just to those who are close to us, but to all humanity…

Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive, show patience, empathy and love.

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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I was in Java Joes having lunch with my sister Maryanne when I looked up and saw this amazing picture hanging on the wall in front of me.  It was drawn by a local 15 year old girl from the Wyoming Conference Children’s Home.  I was struck by the pure honesty of it!  We all have had our hearts broken and bruised in our life from time to time, and this picture clearly spoke to me and I related completely.  I love this picture and believe it really speaks to everyone of us on some level.  We’re all in this life together, and we all need to be held, loved and supported from time to time.

Healing-Heart_Jane_Ehrich_blog(1) We All Need Healing, Love & Support…

A the daughter of a friend of mine saw this picture at my house recently and wrote a poem based on her interpretation of what it meant to her…

Every broken heart,

All across the Earth,

Dipped in the sea of emotion,

That everyone is reluctant to surf,

Just lend God your broken heart,

Now this way you won’t be torn apart,

Show the world your love,

And release that healthy dove,

The dove represents the love and soul,

Of your heart,

That is now whole.

-Emily Rogers, 11

I wish you love in your heart, peace in your soul, and miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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My husband Tom transitioned to Spirit world January 23, 2007.  I miss his physical presence beyond words.  He is the love of my life and my greatest supporter in All that I do.  Tom was a kind and gentle soul who was so full of Love and Life!  He always had a huge smile on his face that uplifted everyone he met.  His passing had a tremendous effect on all who knew him and has inspired others to live a better and deeper life.  Many people have told me this.  My brother-in-law Arnie coined the expression “BLT,” which stands for Be Like Tommy!  And will say BLT often to remind him and others to be kind, loving, and genuine like Tommy.  Tom continues to inspire us every day!  I am extremely grateful for our beautiful life that we shared together and I feel Tommy’s love and support every day…

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

Jane-and-BLT Happy 32nd Anniversary to Tommy...

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Months after Tommy had passed, I was driving in my car and began sobbing (with grief, this happens out of the blue).  Quickly I sunk into the depths of despair and felt so alone and hopeless.  I pulled over and stopped the car because I could not see to drive.  Crying a bit longer, I looked out my window and saw these flowers growing out of an old blacktop driveway, through a tiny crack.  I got out, and bent down to get a closer look.  They were so beautiful and healthy, and actually appeared to be “happy.”  Still crying, I spoke to them and said “If you can make it… So Can I!”  It was a very clear moment that I was meant to visit these beautiful little flowers that were thriving through the smallest crack in an asphalt driveway.  I took this picture on my cell phone and have a photo of it in my house.  When I look at it, I am happy and hopeful.  Black-eyed Susan’s were Tommy’s favorite flower!  There are No Coincidences Anywhere in This World!!!  Stay open to the gifts that come to you every day…

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

Black-Eyed-Susans-by-Jane-Ehrich Message of Hope...

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For anyone who has lost a loved one to death, I hope that this will bring you comfort. Several months after my husband had died, I pulled into our driveway- I was crying and missing him beyond words. Stuck on the front door was this letter. There was no note attached to explain where it came from or who put it there. Just this letter…

Letter from Heaven To my dearest family some things I’d like to say but first of all to let you know that I arrived today, I’m writing this from Heaven. Here I shall dwell with God above here, there are no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through God picked me up and hugged me and He said “I welcome you, it’s good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone, as for your dearest family, they’ll be here later on. I need you here badly; you are part of my plan there’s so much that we have to do to help our mortal man.” God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do and foremost on the list was to watch and care for you and when you lie in bed at night, the day’s chores put to flight God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears but do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned if I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand but one thing is for certain though my life on earth is o’er I’m closer to you now than I ever was before. There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb but together we can do it by taking one day at a time. When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got me on your mind I’m walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind and when it’s time for you to go from that body to be free remember you’re not going you’re just coming here to me.

This letter changed how I looked at what I was experiencing, and I still find comfort from it to this day. If you know someone who might benefit from reading this, I hope you’ll print it out and send it to them- Anonymously. To the person who sent it to me, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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I have long felt that the superficial things of life are not as valuable as we have been conditioned to believe. Since the passing of my husband Tom, I am more aware of this and embrace the message below.  I hope you too find it inspirational…

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider free-ways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life not life to years. We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things. We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete… Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn’t cost a cent. Remember, to say, ‘I love you’ to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend any hurt when it comes from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again. Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.   By Dr. Bob Moorehead.

“Twenty years from now your will be more disappointed by the things your didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” Mark Twain

I wish you Love in your Heart, Peace in your soul, and Miracles in your life…
Namaste’
Jane

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